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Year of the New Mexico Girl

 

 

 

 

 

Be a part of our documentary project!!!

The NM Commission on the Status of Women produced a documentary about young women in New Mexico and their challenges and choices.

Below you will find several video stories that have been produced by young women in New Mexico about five issues identified as leading challenges for youth in our state.

Respondents viewed the video clips below and then answered the questions that followed. We used these responses as part of the documentary that aired on June 12 at 7pm on KOAT 7.

Body Image

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Is being thin important to young girls?

Yes: 96%
No:  4%

Why or Why Not?

"Images of women and girls are being portrayed as "perfect". In magazines you don't see chunky girls, or girls that just have a little extra anything anywhere. When girls open a magazine or watch television they see women, teens, and girls that are physically fit and perfectly shaped. When these kinds of girls are constantly seen you get the impression that in order to be beautiful or attractive you must be thin."

CH
age 17

Substance Abuse

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How involved do you think your parents should be in your social life?

"I think my parents should be involved to a certain extent. It really depends on the maturity level that the child has to be honest. I think if your responsible and actually have a mind of your own that your parents will hopefully realize that. ALthough, the more you keep your parents in the loop, the more they'll trust you and that you'll make good decisions."

SB
age 16

"I think that all, or at least most kids do things that their parents would not approve of, but that is just part of growing up. If parents were monitoring everything about our social lives, then we would never get the chance to learn for ourselves and make our own mistakes. I think it is important for parents to lay out boundaries for their kids, but trust them enough to make most of their own decisions. A lot kids will be safe about what they do, just because of common sense, not because of what their parents may or may not have told them."

AS
age 18

Do they know what you're dealing with when you go out?

Yes: 62%
No:  38%

Date Violence

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Have you been exposed to an abusive relationship (yourself or a friend or family member)?

Yes: 43%
No:  37%

What have you done about it or what would you do about if you were?

"I would get out of it. I'm not the type of person to take anything that I don't deserve and I believe no one else should."

"It is always important to let the victim know that she has a place to go and someone to talk to with out putting her into further danger. Its important to work with her in order to get her out of the situation. If she knows she has somewhere to go and knows she will be safe, it will help her get out of the abusive relationship."

ED
age 13

Teen Pregnancy

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What are you doing to insure you reach your goals and don't become part of the teen pregnancy cycle?

"I'm taking birth control but I know that won't always help. Always use a condom and never think you're too lucky too not get pregnant.. just be smart about it."

AT
age 16

"I am practicing abstinence. That is my plan. I will get birth control the minute I begin to think that a relationship is going to go that far. Self control and common sense- two tools that I will be using a lot of all the way through high school and probably beyond. College is my main focus, so I will not do anything that will get in the way of that."

FS
age 14

"To reach my goals and not become part of the teen pregnancy cycle I have signed a pledge that true love waits until marriage. I wear a purity ring on my finger to insure that I always remember that. I know that when I wait until the night after I am married to have sex I will know it is right and will enjoy it more."

CR
age 17

Depression

 

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Would you be embarrassed to ask for help if you thought you were depressed? Why or why not?

Yes: 36%
No:  64%

Why or Why Not?

"My family already had to deal with my sister's depression, and I am very open with my feelings so It wouldn't be a shock for them for me to tell them I was depressed. Counselors and doctors deal with a lot of patients with depression so I would not feel awkward telling them my problem."

EC
age 14

"...because it would just be weird talking to someone about it, like your parents or a counselor I have a counselor, and I don't tell her everything that goes on to begin with."

KL
age 13

"Yes, being a female it is seen a sign of weakness to ask for help. People also think that being depressed means that there something mentally wrong with you when all you need is someone to talk to and help you through what you are going through."

JV
age 19

Careers (video only)

 

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